You can’t have love without loss…

Today I want to write about loss and not specifically loved ones that I’ve lost (I’ve lost many for different reasons throughout my life). Although, I’ve never experienced the death of a loved one therefore I’m grateful for that. I want to kind of flip loss on it’s head to portray a more positive message.

In order to have lost something or someone you would in fact had to of cared for someone or had them in your life for a reason. Loss is horrible but there will always be a happy memory or maybe something that they’ve said that you can hold close to your heart for the rest of your life. Maybe someone came in your life to change your perspective or to help you overcome a hurdle. Maybe they played their part in your life and their purpose was to help you.



None of us truly understand why we have to lose someone that you can care so dearly for but realistically people come and go to help shape you as a person and to create the final person you become. Yes, we may all lose someone or something but if we shared love (which is really a beautiful thing to come across anyway) then we should be grateful for those memories or the teachings that person passed on. It’s so difficult to see the positive in times of loss but we all have our place and a journey to complete. We’ll be challenged in life and loss is definitely one of the hardest but we must accept and look forward to the future.

This was only a quick post but I must sleep now!

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Good Mood Foods… 6 Ways to eat yourself into a good mood!


happy person eating

Hey there!

 Have you noticed feeling fatigued or having an unusually low mood? This can’t always be avoidable but you can avoid getting into unhealthy eating habits and start making some positive changes. Before you know it your mood will be enhanced! I used to eat a KFC a day and had awful physical and mental health. I have cut out junk food almost completely now and feel like I can face life’s issues with far more ease than I used to.

These foods should help you gain a spring in your step:

   1) Dark Chocolate – This food is not a chore to eat and contains serotonin, which is a natural anti-depressant.  Additionally, it is high in magnesium which calms your muscles and can reduce anxiety. My favourite is Green and Blacks.

Dark chocolate

2) Chickpeas – Chickpeas are a good source of magnesium and this can help your muscles relax. They also contain Vitamin B6 which can help the reduce irritability and depression. A great way to eat this is by making a hummus dip! It’s amazing with Rivita or chopped veg.


3)  Wholegrain rice – As with chickpeas, this staple contains magnesium and B6. Other complex carbs, such as, oatmeal, beans and wholegrain pasta can also have the same effect.

wholegrain rice

4) Berries – Tasty fruits, such as strawberries, raspberries and blueberries contain anthocyanidins and anthocyanins-nutrients that aid stress reduction and depression. 

summer fruits

5) Green tea – This amazing tea contains theanine (an antioxidant) that helps you stay calm.

green tea

6) Flaxseeds – You can buy these in a grounded form and eat them on your cereal for breakfast!


Exercise has also been proven to be as effective for improving mood as medication! Although, it can be difficult to get up and move when you are feeling low, it can have a really positive impact. Here’s my blog post on some exercises I do and my favorite motivational music at the moment:

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Emily X